No expectations, no problemo

So, V-day is approaching, and I’m sure most girls have certain expectations from bae. Some may not ,but given society’s pressure to be shown appreciation and affection on this days, some develop these expectations the closer and closer we get to vday.

Many girls may have expectations, but we should remember that guys are only human and have many other things in their life to take care of. Sometimes, they may not even know how to be “romantic” in the way you want, and this can often lead to disappointment as expectations are not met.

In other situations, girls may end up comparing their partners efforts to others, and feel unsatisfied, which causes a fight that could have been avoided, had there been proper communication. Relationships are not sunshine and roses all the time, and we need to learn how to properly communicate our needs and wants to our partners, instead of expecting them to be mind readers. We also need to stop comparing our relationships to others as no two people are the same, and you only ever see the outside-never the inside.

I encourage you girls, to be more open about your expectations for valentine’s day, rather than it not being met and this leading to disappointment about a day created by man-kind.

As for all my singletons, fret not, you don’t have to be spending money on anyone but yourself, or even have the possibility of disappointment, cos you got your own boo!

What are you expecting this V-day? Let us know in the comments 😊.